Life is about relationships. Jesus says that we should not lay up treasures for ourselves that moth and rust can destroy, or that thieves may steal (Matt. 6:19-20). Distilled, Jesus is saying that the physical treasures of this world will ultimately perish and fail. Therefore, our hearts should value that which cannot be destroyed, namely character and relationships.
If we consider Jesus' method for relating to people as the standard to be emulated, then the Gospels and the remainder of the New Testament should serve as the guide. Jesus loved people perfectly. He did this in two ways. First, and most important, He gave Himself to be crucified for the sin of all mankind. Secondly, Jesus lived with people, really lived with them.
The essence of this is what relationship building is all about. Jesus spent time with all types of people.
He went into peoples' houses. He sat down and ate meals. He walked miles with groups. This takes time and a certain humility. Even though Jesus was in very nature God, He continually made Himself low so as to raise others up. This stands at the core of building real relationships.
Another key to relationship building is compassionate honesty. No one will ever allow themselves to be truly vulnerable if they feel judged. We should strive then to maintain humility and compassion at all times so that people would feel comfortable enough to open themselves to us, and thus expose their hearts to the Lord.
If we truly want to be used as salt and light, then we must take seriously the example of Jesus, particularly in relationships. Acquaintance is not enough for the love of God to pass through us. We need to be willing to open our hearts to others so as to allow them the freedom to do the same. Transformational relationships require time and effort for they do not happen overnight or passively. Let us then strive to live the love that Jesus modeled so that we could form relationships that transform hearts and lives!
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